Comments on: Why Do You Still Hate Your Job?

By: The Daily Minder

The Daily Minder — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 04:12:32 +0000

Thanks for your comment. Did you actually read the post?

By: Unknown 1

Unknown 1 — Sat, 01 Aug 2009 22:59:31 +0000

I think the last comment has to be put in context. In this case is obvious that you don’t blame yourself for being raped.

But there are other many occasions where I actually find very interesting to blame myself. For example, today I really hate my job. (i need to change my attitude because I can’t change my job). The thing is, should I blame my bosses? I had an interview and they just explain me what i was going to do. Perhaps they were very possitive but they didn’t lye. So i was the “stupid” one who chose it. They pay me real shit but it is something that we also spoke in my interview so I shouldn’t blame them because I accepted it. Things like that.

In this way you can control your hanger and be nice with the rest of the people which at the end is the best for you.

I found this article very interesting. I work in a head-hunter. I hate my job and I talk everyday with people who hate their job and try to change into another. I can tell you that at this moment that is impossible mission in many cases. Well, then lets try to be happy with what we have. I don’t say don’t look for another job but you will have to cope with the same shit everyday because normally is not that easy to change your job. Then try to stay positive, and change your actitude and well, i don’t want to repit the article.

By: jon

jon — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 18:29:12 +0000

My wife is thirty-five and still believes that she bears the blame for her being raped when she was eighteen. Failing to understand that you have no control over the thoughts, behavior and choices of others will lead to insanity and codependencey. Blaming yourself for everything that happens to you is terrible damaging advice. It will ruin your life.

By: Marcus

Marcus — Thu, 28 May 2009 13:57:02 +0000

Nice article – but accepting blame I have spent a long time (10 years) at work being nice to people and have never had a promotion or raise – on two separate occasions people have lied about me and received a subsequent promotion.

In short this advice is very good as long as you are happy in your current position and have no ambition to go any further

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By: Greg

Greg — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 02:12:05 +0000

There’s nothing so true as the saying “…You may not have a choice about what you do, but you can choose how to do it.” The hardest thing to overcome when seeking happiness in a job is yourself.

By: The Daily Minder

The Daily Minder — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 03:17:10 +0000

Hi Elizabeth. Number two is a really good suggestion. Sometimes I forget this for weeks on end!

Thanks for commenting.

TDM

By: The Daily Minder

The Daily Minder — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 03:16:09 +0000

Thanks again Nadia. Always love your comments.

By: The Daily Minder

The Daily Minder — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 03:15:21 +0000

Fantastic comment. Thanks for stopping by after chatting on Twitter! Isn’t Twitter great. Thank you.

TDM

By: The Daily Minder

The Daily Minder — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 03:13:53 +0000

Absolutely. It is not about the outside world, it is about your mind.

Thanks for commenting!

TDM