Comments on: Be Strong: How to Deal With Pain and Hardships in Your Life http://www.thedailymind.com/how-to/be-strong-how-to-deal-with-pain-and-hardships-in-your-life/ Sun, 29 Jan 2012 05:25:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: pramosh pual http://www.thedailymind.com/how-to/be-strong-how-to-deal-with-pain-and-hardships-in-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-25052 pramosh pual Thu, 12 May 2011 20:11:39 +0000 http://thedailymind.com/?p=628#comment-25052 I was so depressed before reading this becuase of my father.. but now i realize things happens let it happen u dont have to think over it for eg.there is day and there is night and this will continue always for ever. I was so depressed before reading this becuase of my father..
but now i realize things happens let it happen u dont have to think over it for eg.there is day and there is night and this will continue always for ever.

]]> By: Confucius http://www.thedailymind.com/how-to/be-strong-how-to-deal-with-pain-and-hardships-in-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-25013 Confucius Thu, 21 Apr 2011 02:29:56 +0000 http://thedailymind.com/?p=628#comment-25013 A passage from the Analects of Confucius (translated by Rodger T Ames and Henry Rosemont Jr.) 14.38 Zilu spent the night at Stone Gate. The morning gatekeeper asked him, "Where are you from?" "From the residence of Confucius," replied Zilu. "Isn't he the one who keeps trying although he knows that it is in vain?" asked the gatekeeper. This passage from the Analects always helps me. Confucius had a reputation for perseverance and I find myself remembering this passage when I know I need to keep fighting and trying in all my struggles. I would like to be known by my friends, family, and colleagues as someone of noble character and a strong will, much the way Confucius was. A passage from the Analects of Confucius (translated by Rodger T Ames and Henry Rosemont Jr.)
14.38 Zilu spent the night at Stone Gate. The morning gatekeeper asked him, “Where are you from?” “From the residence of Confucius,” replied Zilu. “Isn’t he the one who keeps trying although he knows that it is in vain?” asked the gatekeeper.
This passage from the Analects always helps me. Confucius had a reputation for perseverance and I find myself remembering this passage when I know I need to keep fighting and trying in all my struggles. I would like to be known by my friends, family, and colleagues as someone of noble character and a strong will, much the way Confucius was.

]]> By: Paulpeters http://www.thedailymind.com/how-to/be-strong-how-to-deal-with-pain-and-hardships-in-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-24917 Paulpeters Sun, 20 Mar 2011 00:09:56 +0000 http://thedailymind.com/?p=628#comment-24917 Life is beautiful but when in depression it becomes the opposite. But in all adversity of life there is always an expiry date nothing last for ever. Life is beautiful but when in depression it becomes the opposite. But in all adversity of life there is always an expiry date nothing last for ever.

]]> By: Mark http://www.thedailymind.com/how-to/be-strong-how-to-deal-with-pain-and-hardships-in-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-24811 Mark Tue, 22 Feb 2011 17:08:41 +0000 http://thedailymind.com/?p=628#comment-24811 thank you for the wonderful writeup. it definitely made my day better. thank you for the wonderful writeup. it definitely made my day better.

]]> By: iYAN-kun http://www.thedailymind.com/how-to/be-strong-how-to-deal-with-pain-and-hardships-in-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-24798 iYAN-kun Sun, 13 Feb 2011 03:14:39 +0000 http://thedailymind.com/?p=628#comment-24798 when i get busted by a girl because of my smell issue, this phrase from buddhism went through my mind, "Thats the way things are.. let it be," when i get busted by a girl because of my smell issue, this phrase from buddhism went through my mind, “Thats the way things are.. let it be,”

]]> By: The Daily Minder http://www.thedailymind.com/how-to/be-strong-how-to-deal-with-pain-and-hardships-in-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-24656 The Daily Minder Mon, 13 Dec 2010 05:44:04 +0000 http://thedailymind.com/?p=628#comment-24656 Hi John. Things will pick up. Don't lose hope. Have you tried sharing your problems with anyone? Hi John.

Things will pick up. Don’t lose hope.

Have you tried sharing your problems with anyone?

]]> By: majorshadow http://www.thedailymind.com/how-to/be-strong-how-to-deal-with-pain-and-hardships-in-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-24649 majorshadow Sun, 12 Dec 2010 10:38:15 +0000 http://thedailymind.com/?p=628#comment-24649 Song Title: "Breathe" Hear at URL: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q2jRHk2rQ_w song is about the hardships of life Song Title: “Breathe”
Hear at URL: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q2jRHk2rQ_w
song is about the hardships of life

]]> By: John http://www.thedailymind.com/how-to/be-strong-how-to-deal-with-pain-and-hardships-in-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-24629 John Thu, 09 Dec 2010 15:56:09 +0000 http://thedailymind.com/?p=628#comment-24629 I am 34 years old - male Living with stressful parent and people and I never mix around with people. I am struggling in life, I find it very hard for me to overcome my negative thoughts(overwhelming situations that I don’t know how to deal with) and can't able to cope in a job. Job i have been working in and out for many jobs. Now my new job as kitchen crew at food court front counter (I don't want to quit this job but it's very difficult in learning the job, remembering the name of the item - Easily forget and they must keep teaching me), my knee injury and can't able to squad down and up and taking responsibility at work and going to work early. I have been feeling very moody these days(Rate 0 to 10 = 9). People around my area keep stressing me, making fun of me, etc everyday and my niece and my sister children keep crying and making a hell of my life and none of my family member understand me(Rate 0 to 10 = 10). I find it very difficult to go to bed early and get up in the morning early to work. I see that some people can easily cope and learn and be flexible at work. It's not very easy for me to cope and be independent (Rate 0 to 10 = 10). I am very scared and shy person. I am too afraid to change my life and can't able to face the problem in my life. Frustration that i can't able to cure my knee injury, overcome my stress, get a girl friend, pick up course and cope in job - 5 years past. I can't able to do Meditation because i am stressful and can't able to be lonely - start to get scared. I am start to think about Suicide thoughts************** - i am struggling and trying my best i can but I am very helpless. I am 34 years old – male
Living with stressful parent and people and I never mix around with people. I am struggling in life, I find it very hard for me to overcome my negative thoughts(overwhelming situations that I don’t know how to deal with) and can’t able to cope in a job. Job i have been working in and out for many jobs. Now my new job as kitchen crew at food court front counter (I don’t want to quit this job but it’s very difficult in learning the job, remembering the name of the item – Easily forget and they must keep teaching me), my knee injury and can’t able to squad down and up and taking responsibility at work and going to work early. I have been feeling very moody these days(Rate 0 to 10 = 9). People around my area keep stressing me, making fun of me, etc everyday and my niece and my sister children keep crying and making a hell of my life and none of my family member understand me(Rate 0 to 10 = 10). I find it very difficult to go to bed early and get up in the morning early to work. I see that some people can easily cope and learn and be flexible at work. It’s not very easy for me to cope and be independent (Rate 0 to 10 = 10). I am very scared and shy person. I am too afraid to change my life and can’t able to face the problem in my life. Frustration that i can’t able to cure my knee injury, overcome my stress, get a girl friend, pick up course and cope in job – 5 years past. I can’t able to do Meditation because i am stressful and can’t able to be lonely – start to get scared. I am start to think about Suicide thoughts************** – i am struggling and trying my best i can but I am very helpless.

]]> By: Swanz http://www.thedailymind.com/how-to/be-strong-how-to-deal-with-pain-and-hardships-in-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-24628 Swanz Thu, 09 Dec 2010 15:56:03 +0000 http://thedailymind.com/?p=628#comment-24628 Life is a cycle... Sometimes at the top sometimes at the bottom. We just need to work harder when we are at the top to prevent from falling to the lowest bottom & when we thought we are at the bottom we struggle harder to climb back to the top. Do not expect others to help us to make our life better. In conclusion... there is no time to complain, working harder is the only strength for mankind to advance. Life is a cycle…
Sometimes at the top sometimes at the bottom.
We just need to work harder when we are at the top to prevent from falling to the lowest bottom & when we thought we are at the bottom we struggle harder to climb back to the top. Do not expect others to help us to make our life better.
In conclusion… there is no time to complain, working harder is the only strength for mankind to advance.

]]> By: majorshadow http://www.thedailymind.com/how-to/be-strong-how-to-deal-with-pain-and-hardships-in-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-24611 majorshadow Sun, 05 Dec 2010 11:18:55 +0000 http://thedailymind.com/?p=628#comment-24611 "Breathe" a song about hardships at the following URL http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ohheyitp06M “Breathe” a song about hardships at the following URL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ohheyitp06M

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