Comments on: 9 Things I Learned From the Coolest Wedding Ever

By: Marianne

Marianne — Sat, 14 Aug 2010 10:09:07 +0000

Love your perspective on things ! Thanks !

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By: AJ

AJ — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 04:52:36 +0000

love begets loyalty, respect and kindness and they in return strengthen love. I believe marriage is a choice – either you behave towards your partner in loving ways and therefore chose your marriage, or you act in petty, perhaps ego centric ways and chose yourself.

I agree with JB idea that love comes in many forms.

By: CK

CK — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 16:53:46 +0000

Very cool post! It’s very true that if you are open to having a good time, you definitely will! For me, it’s always a challenge to engage with people at events like weddings…I’m usually in my own world…so I tell myself to ‘take the bubble helmet off’ and open up. I’ve been surprised a lot by how my outlook on situations brightens once I agree with myself to enjoy everyone around me.

By: The Daily Minder

The Daily Minder — Mon, 01 Dec 2008 13:17:15 +0000

I know what you mean Mickey. I inherited my dancing ability from my dad – the whitest guy you will ever meet. Sad.

By: Mickey

Mickey — Mon, 01 Dec 2008 13:14:32 +0000

Wish I knew I don’t feel like I have any rhythm, and am just making a mess of things. Maybe I should take up drinking that seems to help other people loosen up. I’ve thought about working on it, but the opportunities for me to just dance in public setting are not cropping up as much as they used to anymore, and I’m not sure that this is a bad thing in any case.

~Mickey

By: The Daily Minder

The Daily Minder — Mon, 01 Dec 2008 13:10:26 +0000

Where do you think that self-consciousness comes from Mick?

By: Mickey

Mickey — Mon, 01 Dec 2008 12:35:18 +0000

The no one cares what you look like part is a difficult one for me. Well, not really, I think its more that I care what I look like when I’m dancing. And I feel like a complete idiot when I try to dance. I’m fully willing to look stupid in many other capacities, but in dancing I feel like a fool, and can’t get into it. So I watch, and have fun that way. Nice observation on snapping yourself out of the foul mood. I was just talking to my grandparents about that the other night, how it seems impossible at first to notice that you underneath the emotional weather, but once you notice him/her, you can really empower him not to care about the current weather of your personality, and really snap yourself out of some funky moods. One of the more valuable “tricks” of meditating I’ve found so far Glad you had a good time!

~Mickey

By: The Daily Minder

The Daily Minder — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 13:05:20 +0000

I agree JB. Thanks for commenting.

It is a good distinction to remember that love is the wish for people to be happy. It takes the selfishness out of it.

Nice one mate.

TDM

By: JB

JB — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 12:52:59 +0000

Hey Daily,
just picking up on number 6 (cause you asked!).. to me love is THE most important thing. Just that love comes in lots of forms at different times.. sometimes in the form of loyalty, sometimes in the form of patience, sometimes in the form of respect.. but, always, love is the wish for your friend to be happy. That should always be there.